Tonight is the first night that nobody from the extended family stayed here. They all left and went to their hotel rooms for the night. It was strange to be just our family (what’s left of it). It is hard to believe that I will be needing to return to work and make some sense of my life moving forward.
While the children (YaYa and BoBo) were nestled, all snug in their beds, DD and I stayed up and watched a movie. All was well until one of the final scenes. It was a wedding scene and I got hit with the line “’till death do you part.”
I’ve been up ever since, going through stacks of old photos and remembering some fun moments. I realize that morning will be here soon. Actually, it is already here, but I can’t sleep. My head is spinning. So much has already fallen into place for Tom’s mass and celebration of his life. But there is still so much left to do.
* I discovered several of your blogs tonight with posts just for me. I feel so special, and loved. Thank you! *
Juls, my deepest condolences to you. Tom sounds like such a special guy. Your family will offer much support…feel free to lean on it freely.
My prayers for you and the kids especially as you walk through these next few days.
Hang in there Juls, and keep posting if you can – the emotional release of putting words to paper (or screen) often can help. Try to get a couple short runs in too, take care of yourself…
I guess having so much to do right now can be a bit of a help. I can’t pretend to know. Do whatever you need and whatever you can to take care of yourself and your kids. My prayers are with you daily.
Juls, many of us read blogs and don’t post, so be comforted that there are thousands of “arms” out there hugging you as they read what you’re dealing with. And someday when you can stand it, read “Annie Freeman’s Fabulous Traveling Funeral,” a marvelous book about the celebration of a life and recognition that even after death, a loved one can guide us and shape who we become.
No one is an island. We all grieve for your loss.
Take care.
I hope you can stay away from work long enough to process what has happened and to get your bearings.
I really like what Kurt said and I couldn’t agree more.
count me as two of those arms.
Two big hugs from me. With more available upon request. Take care.
count me as two more of those arms!
As I just mentioned on my blog, I can’t thank you enough for keeping the posts coming and keeping the feelings real. You really are a remarkable woman. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
((hugs))
Hugs from Ohio, too, Julie…
Thinking of you, Julie.
Even with the photoshopping, that bright Juls smile shows through! I owe you a hug (or two) if we ever meet.
*hugs* Juls.
Thinking of you…
(hugs)
~Stacy
Sorry for your loss Juls
Big Hugs from FL,
Bob
There are no appropriate words Juls only a simple prayer of peace for you and your family. God bless you.
Juls,
Thinking of you and sending you hugs. Know there are lots of us here .. just wanting to offer what we can to let you know we care. Deborah
Julie,
I am so sorry to hear about Tom. I am in Italy on vacation right now and wish I were there to do something to help.
My thoughts are with you.
Kris
Julie,
You’ve always been a role model for me: The super mom that can do it all. Amazing that at such hard times for you and your family, you still teach all of us what is true dedication and what parenthood is really about. I am sending you all the energy and positive thoughts I have in me to help in whatever way you choose.
I think I can sort of see what you are going through having just lost my bride of 33 yrs back in February. If you need to yell, scream, cry or talk, email me. It has been over a month now and I still wonder how I’ll get along, but I will and so will you! Run Good!
Julie, no words can be sufficient, but let me add my voice to the chorus wanting to help and support you through this trying time.